Communication Tip of the Day from Treat Consulting: NAME PASSIVE-AGGRESSIVENESS AS A WAY TO MANAGE IT EFFECTIVELY. Managing a passive-aggressive employee is difficult because you never really know what is going on. The most effective way to manage passive-aggressive behavior is to name it without blaming and shaming the employee. Make a neutral comment such as 'I can see that you are uncomfortable with,' 'What do you think about,' or' How are you feeling about.' Stay calm and focused. Be clear about your thoughts and feelings. State your expectations.